If a child is about to be married: how adults can help
Often, someone outside the family knows that a child is about to be married. It may be a teacher, a neighbour, a relative or a health worker. What they do next can change a girl's life.
Signs to notice
- A girl suddenly stops coming to school, or talks about leaving.
- She seems anxious, withdrawn or afraid.
- The family talks about an engagement, a bride price or wedding plans for a young daughter.
How to help safely
- Listen to the girl. Let her speak without pressure, and believe her.
- Keep her safe. Do not take steps that could put her at greater risk at home.
- Talk to the family with respect. Many parents believe early marriage protects their daughter. Calm information about the harm can change minds.
- Involve trusted people. A teacher, a doctor or a respected community figure may be able to persuade the family.
- Seek professional help. Contact child protection services, the police or organisations that protect children, where they exist and are safe to approach.
What not to do
Do not share the girl's name, photographs or story in public or on social media. Exposure can bring shame, anger or danger to her.
Why acting matters
Child marriage can end a girl's education, harm her health and expose her to violence. Acting early, before the wedding, is the best chance to protect her.
No one has to do this alone. By working together, adults who care can help a girl keep her childhood.